• @RaoulDook@lemmy.world
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      239 months ago

      Yeah none of those kids should have cell phones. They should be about old enough to drive before they get one even.

    • @douglasg14b@lemmy.world
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      289 months ago

      What a great way to dismiss an entire problems based that affects our society. It’s easier to just hand wave it away as someone else’s problem than to actually consider it…

      When a problem becomes systematic it’s now a societal and cultural problem and not an individual responsibility problem. Individual responsibility isn’t working so it’s now down to the society this is occurring in to solve the systematic problem in a systematic way.

      That’s how almost everything works

      • @mPony@lemmy.world
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        29 months ago

        oh please. if guns became sentient someone would stack three of them in a trenchcoat and give them the right to vote.

      • ArxCyberwolf
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        89 months ago

        Children can’t do that if you’re a responsible parent that keeps an eye on what their child is doing. Y’know, the bare minimum of parenting.

        • @douglasg14b@lemmy.world
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          Imagine not realizing that people have to work for a living… Or that adult mental health is at an all time low. Or that social media manipulation affects people who are parents as well as their kids.

          Similarly just kicking the problem down the road like you’re doing doesn’t actually solve it. It just inhibits solutions and contributes to the problem.

          So in this instance people that think like your comment states actually are indirectly part of the problem. Which is ironic.

      • 【J】【u】【s】【t】【Z】
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        -29 months ago

        Childless young people downvoting this, perhaps not able to admit they’re just like mom or dad?

        For most of us I’m sorry but it’s true! Kids are mirrors; apples don’t fall far from trees. Not all of them. Some carry.

    • @tamal3@lemmy.world
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      19 months ago

      Yes, but it’s also new territory for us as a species. I’m sure the guidance and monitors will be significantly improved in the next decade, but a decade ago… It was the wild west, baby.

    • @Buttons@programming.dev
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      Yeah, parents are getting ruined by social media algorithms too.

      Our government seems to be moving towards an “we only care about the children, but everyone, including adults, upload your government papers” approach.

      Y’all got any of those protections for adults? I remember reading regulations that companies couldn’t show children advertisements. Can I have some of that regulation too?

      I just can’t stop being cynical that there is little focus on homeless or underpaid adults, or other adult issues, but the one problem we’re focused on just so happens to include everyone giving up anonymity on the Internet.

      We do need to help kids with social media, but there’s a lot of other challenges they will soon face as adults that we’re ignoring.

      • @slumberlust@lemmy.world
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        69 months ago

        Are there any examples of ‘for the kids’ legislation that isn’t just something like backdoor encryption masquerading as protecting the young?

        • 【J】【u】【s】【t】【Z】
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          Uhh, yes, in fact I’d say most. There’s entire systems of childhood health legislation, education, labor, you name it. This is an availability bias showing through. Think about it for five minutes and I bet you can come up with a dozen examples.

  • The Menemen!
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    I managed to almost completly keep my children away from it for now (8 and 10). But it is a struggle. And I will soon lose that struggle. So many children at age 8 or 9 have smartphones for fs sake.

    I plan to slowly introduce them to stuff like this, so they will be able to deal with it. I did so rather successfully with the other bullshit, like Roblox. They are only allowed to play it when I am in the room, and I check that they follow that rule (they do).

    Feels like walking on the edge though. Still unsure when to open the TikTok thing. Too early is bad, but too late and they will somehow already he on tiktok and I just don’t know about it.

    • @TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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      109 months ago

      my siblings managed to keep their kids away from smartphones until 4th grade. And even that was a struggle.

      sadly it just falls into the camp of ‘everyone else is doing it’. and if your kid isn’t they will be socially ostracized.

      • @tamal3@lemmy.world
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        29 months ago

        Some kids also get obsessive about phones once they get one, or obsessed with other people’s phones until then.

  • @profdc9@lemmy.world
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    159 months ago

    You would think that with all those kids watching, Xi would lean into the whole Winnie the Pooh resemblance.

  • @PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca
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    159 months ago

    What does “on tiktok” mean?

    Unsupervised with their own accounts? I feel like that’s difficult to believe. Watching a few tiktoks before dinner with their parents? That doesn’t really strike me as a problem.

    While I don’t entirely disagree with the author, I feel like this is a far too superficial look at what is a larger societal problem: young people have checked out.

    He makes the argument that mental health is in decline, and I’m not sure if that’s true or we’ve just removed the stigma from therapy… But of more concern to me is that young people just DGAF, and I think that’s because older generations have left nothing for younger generations to inherit, besides ruin. Kids 5-7 aren’t gonna understand that, but they’re gonna pick up the vibes from their parents.

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    I’m not completely convinced. It is possible but sounds a bit high to me. It is based on a survey of less than 3k parents, and although I found the BBC article, it doesn’t seem to link to the actual source. It is therefore difficult to take this too seriously without seeing exactly who was interviewed and how the questions were worded.

    • @linearchaos@lemmy.world
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      Yeah, it sounds real high to me. Perhaps the criteria is have ever seen a tt video.

      Now yt, easily > 50%. It’s practically a babysitter. Putting cocomellon in front of your 3yo to get 30 minutes of peace is a parental guilty pleasure.

      Tweens, sure. IG, TT, whatever.

    • @UsernameIsTooLon@lemmy.world
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      49 months ago

      Nah, social media is like a hydra. Another “TikTok” will just be born from the ban.

      Nothing is changing drastically until we have better data protection laws.

      • @anon987@lemmy.world
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        Ban all Chinese/Russian social media companies. GG EZ.

        Edit: sorry my bad, I didn’t realize you were one of the people that thinks all social media is the same.

        You realize that tik toks sole purpose is to brainwash western youth right? This is propaganda 101.

  • @daltotron@lemmy.world
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    I dunno I’m just gonna drop a 50 minute video link on this one and bounce, 'cause if I chronically post my dogshit opinions every time one of these boomer ass articles gets posted here and gets upvoted a million times by the masturbatory elder millennial ex-redditor linux userbase, then I’m gonna be here for a fuckin eternity

  • Jin
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    09 months ago

    Algorithm “okay kids remember, America bad and China number 1”

  • Phoenixz
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    79 months ago

    The TikTok van isn’t bad, it’s great for humanity, it’s great for kids.

    Can we now do the same with Instagram and Facebook and the likes? Basically all of social media?

    Can we also please start banning kids from the Internet now? Since 20 years ago I’ve been saying that kids under 14-16 should not be on the Internet, or if they do, with monitoring and very limited time and access. The Internet is NOT a healthy place for kids. Hell, today they Internet isn’t a healthy place for adults, but that is a different story.

    I hate desantis, but that Florida kids and social media ban is great

    • @vimdiesel@lemmy.world
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      -19 months ago

      it’s not a ban. It’s highly likely China will allow Tiktok to split off a USA version before the deadline is up, if they don’t get it tossed in court. TikTok isn’t going anywhere.

    • @UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world
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      79 months ago

      Can we now do the same with Instagram and Facebook and the likes? Basically all of social media?

      No. In fact, we’re going to gear up our marketing campaigns for IG and YT so that we can reroute all that profitable children’s traffic to a Good American Liberty Loving Social Media Company.

      Can we also please start banning kids from the Internet now? Since 20 years ago I’ve been saying that kids under 14-16 should not be on the Internet

      I can’t imagine how this would be enforced, much less whether arbitrarily cutting kids off from what will (let’s face it) be an essential part of their lives as adults is actually good for them.

      To pull from an old XKCD, simply giving people a novel form of communication isn’t what’s bad for them.

      This shit is what’s bad for them

      And you need to moderate content in order to avoid this sort of shit. Simply banning it all makes about as much sense as banning your kids from looking at magazines, because Playbook and Heavy Metal exist.

      I hate desantis, but that Florida kids and social media ban is great

      If you consider how Florida actually enforces its laws, I think what you’ll find its actually really awful. You’re going to have a bunch of lower-middle class parents and teachers getting random filings against them for things they have very little control over.

      • @spez_@lemmy.world
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        -19 months ago

        We need to ban the internet for select communities. Starting from those who are under the age 25. Other properties should be selected too eventually.